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How Not to Conduct Your Business on Twitter

There was mucho furore on Twitter today, as MUA attempted to launch their (apparently) much anticipated code for 50% off all their products.  However, as is usually the case with these types of promotions, word got out and before you knew it, all make-up lovers were heading to the site to start their shopping which resulted in a mahoosive site crash.

So, rather than take to Twitter to apologise for any inconvenience caused, loyal fans were tweeted these gems:


"Everyone, please get off our website!"....really? I'm sorry, you want your customers to NOT visit your site?  Your site can't handle the surge of traffic and the fault of this lies at the feet of your customers?? I imagined a middle-aged, matron type sitting there Tweeting and getting all flustered that her charges were being awfully naughty.


Obviously I understand and even sympathise with the fact that it was probably quite stressful for the MUA team; I would imagine they wanted to get it sorted as quickly as possible so everything could go back to normal, but barking patronising orders at your Twitter and Facebook followers is not the way to go; at best it's unprofessional and at worst it's just plain rude.  Clearly they didn't plan very well for this and I'm sure lots of lessons were learnt, but seriously MUA, apologise for inconveniencing the very people who keep your business afloat, don't shout at them over Twitter!
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Happy New Year and My Resolutions

I'm still, on occasion, writing 2011 which tells me that readjusting to writing 2013 isn't going to go particularly well, but I'll give it a go.  Happy New Year everyone! I hope the hangovers aren't caning too severely and that you saw in the new year wonderfully.  

I've decided to only have five New Year Resolutions this year and try and make them as realistically and achievable as possible.  My inspiration for achievable and realistic goals came from my dog training manual, so I figure if it's good enough for Ava, it's good enough for me...

1.  Stop doing things because I feel like I should and instead do things because I want to: 

This I won't be taking too literally as if I had my way I'd spend the duration of 2013 in bed with the Pug in matching PJs watching Sex and the City reruns.  Instead, my plan is to try and learn to say no more and avoid that feeling of guilt and pressure from agreeing to do things that I don't really want to do.

2.  Be more social:

I've been a rubbish friend for the past few months and have pretty much hibernated whilst I pushed forward with my MA and my beloved blog.  Now the MA is done (and I really promise to stop banging on about it soon) I feel free and light and airy like a free, light, airy thing (there's that writing degree being put to good use: Pulitzer here I come) so I can allocate some time to things like seeing friends, dating (eurgh, if I can face it) and generally being a better friend.  This may or may not include sitting in bed with the Pug in matching PJs watching Sex and the City reruns.  

3.  Get the music back in me: 

Music was/is a passion of mine, which is why I did an MA in it, but ever since I started studying it I've kind of lost interest in the enjoyment side of things to instead focus on the academic side.  This coming year I'd like to sing more by joining a vocal group and hopefully having some lessons to keep my vocal strength up.  I used to love singing but I haven't made time for it so now's the time for changin'.

4.  Quit smoking:

We'll see...We'll see.  

5.  YouTube more

I said in my NY resolutions last year that I wanted to film more videos for the blog and I kind of did...well okay, I did one, but that's better than nothing, right?  I'd like to start filming more videos that are relevant and complimentary to my blog so hopefully this will be something I pursue further in the new year.  

So there we have it; my five resolutions in print for me to look back on this time next year.  I've really enjoyed reading about other people's resolutions in my Selfridges beauty box competition so thanks very much for sharing....

Happy New Year!! xx
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Normal Activity Will Resume Shortly...

It's safe to say I'm very much enjoying having some time off to potter around, watch terrible telly, enjoy terrible food and just generally bum out.  I actually treated myself to an Xbox and I've now got a Netflix subscription which is fantastic! Therefore, I've spent pretty much the last two days laying in bed watching telly or sleeping and it has been absolutely amazing...

Over the next few days I'll be posting my December favourites as well as a run through of my favourite products for 2012.  I'll also be reviewing another skincare brush and hopefully either in the next week or in early 2013 I'll put out my comparison video of all  the brushes together to give you an idea of what they look like, how they look in "3D" and my thoughts on them all comparatively.  I'll also be updating on what's been happening with my skin with regards to the final N-Lite treatments I had and how the Jan Marini routine is going.  Plus, I've also got a few make-up items to show you so I'm looking forward to showing you those.

In the meantime, I'm taking tonight to veg out a bit more and I'll throw myself back into normality tomorrow; albeit reluctantly as I'm only leaving the house because I've run out of food.  Ah well.

I hope you all had an amazing Christmas and have some exciting plans for the New Year xx


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A Christmas Message


This time last year I had only been blogging for a few months, so I thought I'd check out the Christmas post I wrote to see if anything has changed.  Obviously lots has, but the enthusiasm and love for blogging still remains which is wonderful to see, especially considering I'm usually the type to get really excited by something and then lose interest quite quickly...I think I've finally found something I love and that's writing about beauty!

I had no idea my blog would become such a huge part of my life (otherwise I would've finished my MA first before starting it!!) but I wouldn't change a thing and I'm so excited that I've now finally finished my MA.  Those of you who are in touch with me regularly will know that I have been delaying it and delaying it because I literally couldn't find the time, but last Friday I finally completed in my final dissertation, so it's all done....I honestly never thought I'd get there so I'm so relieved and it means that I can now focus on blogging more which is something I've wanted to do for quite some time.

Therefore, in the new year there will be a couple of changes.  Firstly, I'll be monetising the blog a bit more by selling advertising space.  This is to allow me to invest more in the blog and pay for the costs such as hosting the blog (I'm moving to Wordpress shortly), picture hosting and I'm also having the blog redesigned again by the lovely Faye from Girl Does Geek, so keep an eye out for the new look soon! 

I'll be giving myself a bit of time off over the next few weeks so I won't be blogging daily again until probably the new year; it'll just be nice to indulge in some "me time" as I've been running on empty for a while now...

Thank you so, so much for all your visits, comments and messages throughout the last year.  It's a cliche, but the blog really has changed my life and that wouldn't have happened without you guys, so thank you so much.

I hope you have an amazing Christmas and Happy New Year! xx

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Christmas Affective Disorder

Grumpy Cat knows what I'm talking about. 
Christmas Affective Disorder; not technically 'a thing' (that I know of) but more of a narrowed down version of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) that I usually find myself prone to at this time of the year.  Apparently it isn't just me though, and having spoken to a few people it seems a lot of us don't get swept up in the Christmas cheer quite as quickly as we're expected to!

I always tend to bum out around Christmas and I'm not really sure why, although my over-analytical mind tends to rationally suggest the likely reasons (I'm single this year so that could be why, I've neglected my social life in favour of other things so I haven't seen my friends much, that could also be why) but I think it's just that around this time of year I get overly reflective and focus more on the areas of my life that are lacking than the ones that are succeeding.  It's a mindset I think, and I'm trying not to fight it too much, instead I'm accepting it, riding it out and anxiously awaiting the arrival of 2013 so that I can crack on with normality again.   

The end of the year is a reflective time for a lot of people as it's easy to start considering what you set out to achieve and measure that against what you actually achieved.  Resolutions really don't help - or certainly not for me anyway - as every single year I set myself a list of ten overly optimistic goals that I haven't a hope in hell of achieving which is the very definition of setting myself up for failure.  Thankfully, now I'm a little older (something else to over-think and bum out about, I'm sure) I just give myself credit for any of the resolutions that I have achieved and for 2013 I'm going to try and be a bit more realistic.  

NYE is the night where we're all supposed to spend a fortune on a night out that would normally cost considerably less, and the onus throughout the night is on how much fun we should be having.  There's so much pressure! It's a special night that only comes around once a year and everyone is in good spirits so there is absolutely no logical reason as to why I shouldn't be having the absolute time of my life.  Yet I usually find NYE quite underwhelming (painting myself as quite the misery guts I know) as I resent paying £30 to access a venue that would normally charge less than a tenner, just to find myself squashed into a room full of people who are clearly having a much better time than me, or if not then they're at least hiding it very well.  Maybe that's my problem, I need to fake it to make it...?  

Anyway, this has turned into quite a ramble but the point is just to say that if you're like me, and you face the holiday season with a sense of mild dread yet you're not really sure why, my advice would be to just try and ride it out, don't over-think it and know that there are plenty of others feeling the exact same way; some of whom are probably just doing a good job at keeping their feelings hidden.  

Kindest regards,

Misery Geek xx
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Dying For Clear Skin?

Whenever there's a show regarding acne on TV I get e-mails from readers and reminders from friends and family to watch or record it.  Recently, BBC3 aired a show called "Dying For Clear Skin" which was a fairly balanced research focussed on the acne drug, Roaccutane.  The show was dominated with the story of Jesse Jones who went missing in 2011.  He suffered from - from what I could tell - fairly mild acne and was prescribed Roaccutane, which resulted in severe side-effects from the drug including depression and suicidal thoughts, and was eventually found dead near his home, believed to have committed suicide.

The show was interesting as it raised some valid points and got me thinking about the impact that acne has on our lives.  Certainly for me - a 28 year old long-term sufferer - it's had a drastic impact on the way I feel about myself and my overall confidence.  If I'm having a good skin day then my confidence sky rockets, yet if I'm having a bad skin day (or we could just call it a normal day) then I'm constantly aware of it.  I have to suck it up and get on with it, but that alone takes a level of confidence that I would imagine most people would struggle to find, especially those who are younger and haven't fully developed their maturity and self-esteem.

The first noteworthy thing about Roaccutane is the numbers in relation to severe side-effects.  From what I can gather, most people who use it will experience some kind of side-effect such as dry lips or dry skin, but there are the occasional sufferers who will completely change once taking the pill and become consumed with depression.  The worst part is, it seems a lot of these people who do unfortunately find themselves suffering from severe side-effects will obviously and sensibly stop taking the pill, yet the side-effects will remain.  This is believed to be the case with Jesse and there were a couple more examples used in the show.

However, in the same way that a very small percentage of babies will allegedly develop autism from the MMR vaccine, yet millions of babies will be fine and protected from the diseases that the vaccination prevents, could the same argument be made for Roaccutane?  This is a drug that has apparently revolutionised the treatment of acne, curing thousands of sufferers and giving them normal skin that no longer hurts, bleeds and cracks every time a spot becomes infected.  Out of all these thousands, one or two of them might develop suicidal tendencies.  Is it worth it?  Without turning this into a giant essay, of course the argument could be made for the fact that vanity should never become more important than life itself, but many acne sufferers will acknowledge that life with severe, painful, spirit-crushing acne that stops you socialising and progressing with your plans isn't much of a life at all.

Dying for Clear Skin can be seen here.
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In about 10 weeks it's....



So in about four weeks, let the rampant gift-guide posts commence!
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Holiday Post: What I Read

Slight deviation from my usual posts today as I thought I'd share with you all the books I read whilst I was away.  The one major thing I absolutely love to do on holiday is absorb myself in a good book.  I treat holidays as periods of complete and utter indulgence and relaxation where I can do all the things I like to do that I can't always make time for at home.  These include sleeping lots, reading lots and eating lots and I don't even drink whilst I'm away as I really want to give my body a total rest.

Twitter followers may know that I purchased a Kindle a little while ago and it is total love; usually my baggage ends up being on the hefty side due to the books I take with me (I can't handle the idea of being left with nothing to read!) so having a choice of close to 30 books with me whilst knowing that my baggage came in under 8kgs (and most of that was make-up, in fairness) left me feeling uber-smug.

I have absolutely no academic standards when it comes to reading; I read whatever interests me.  I loved the Fifty Shades trilogy and I thought Stieg Larsson created a modern, feminist icon for us all to thoroughly enjoy.  I love books that get me turning the page and staying up well past the point where I should be sleeping, so these are the books that kept me company whilst I was on holiday:

Tina Fey - Bossypants 

I dig this chick.  I'm a big 30 Rock fan and I loved Mean Girls too, so I was very excited to read her story and it made for a joyful and entertaining read.  Her fabulous sarcasm and witty story-telling was interjected with cute and sometimes hilarious images of her growing years.

She shared her opinion on a wide variety of topics including beauty (e.g. starting a chapter with: ""How do you stay so eternally youthful?" "Your skin is so flawless.  What's your Secret" People often ask Sharon Stone") and how being an improvisational comedienne was a struggle due to her gender.  It was insightful, daring, easy to read and left you desperately wishing you could call her up and tell her the bits you thought were funny.  Total love for Tina Fey.

Simon Kernick - Severed


I've developed a right old thing for Simon Kernick and his thrilling page-turners.  They're rarely for the faint-hearted and tend to include quite a bit of gore, plus he nearly always kills of the characters you're rooting for which is a bit of a pain, but also quite good unless you're sunbathing by a very public pool and you blurt out "nooooooo!".  Twice.

Severed focuses on ex-army Veteran Tyler who wakes up next to his girlfriend who is....erm....without her head.  We then follow the story of why it is he's there in the first place and how he goes about exacting revenge on the people who killed her (whilst trying to also keep them happy since they have the power to make him look like the killer) and I ended up really loving Tyler and wanting him to succeed.

I read this book in several hours and I am a very slow reader, so that should give you an idea of how good the story is.

Simon Kernick - A Good Day to Die


So obviously as I read the last one so quickly I decided to crack on with another of Kernick's books, and you gotta' love the dramatic title.  This one followed Detective Milne who is a recurring character in Kernick's books and this was the second one he featured in.  Milne is a tricky and quite interesting character as he's someone who is clearly very good at his policing role, but is also a killer of bad guys who he feels have cheated the system.  Is it OK to sympathise with him?  You end up thinking he's pretty wonderful and as is usual for Kernick's characters, you end up rooting for him.

A GOOD DAY TO DIE (yes, it needed capitalising because it's all serious and whatnot) picked up where the first book left off, with Milne having fled the country due to being caught killing (it's a long story...just read the damn books) and finds out that his close friend/colleague has been killed in suspicious circumstances, so he returns to London to find out what happened.  It has to be said, there's a special place in my heart for Kernick books because they all seem to take place in my part of Town - North of the River - so I enjoy the fact that I can accurately imagine the scenes unfolding as they're being described.  If you love a good thriller, I'd definitely recommend checking out Simon Kernick.

The Lost Symbol - Dan Brown


As already mentioned, I love page-turners regardless of whether they're a little on the trashy side (obviously any book that gains commercial fame simply 'must' be trashy since it appeals to the masses...) and I happily got carried away in the excitement of all of Brown's previous offerings including the much-hyped The Da Vinci Code.  The Lost Symbol features "Sexy Symbologist" (apparently they do exist) Robert Langdon opening up doors and being "chilled to the core" by what greets him.  Over 600 pages of this, in fact.

Whilst I didn't hate it, I did find it a little bit patronising, especially as the big payoff that we're waiting for never really occurs and the ending was a bit like The Alchemist (which I also found quite patronising) in a "the answer is within you....it was there all along!!!!" way.  However, as with previous Brown books there was quite a bit of food for thought, the story was gripping for the most part and did keep you reading, plus there was plenty of religious-based conspiracy which I always enjoy.  There are times in the book when I felt like Brown is just showing off by blathering on about his clearly impressive knowledge of symbols, conspiracies and religious text, but it wasn't too annoying for the most part.

The story follows Langdon as he's summoned by his close friend to give a talk at Washington Capitol Building, yet when he arrives...he realises....that it wasn't his friend who summoned him.....ooooooo!  On the plus side though, his friend was kind enough to leave his severed hand in the building (it's a happy coincidence that I read another book featuring a severed limb and not a developing obsession.  Promise) so that Langdon had something to work with when he went up to doors to get all core-chilled.  This was probably my least favourite Brown book but I wouldn't say it was a total waste of time, just not half as good as his others.

So there we have it! These were the four books I read whilst I was away and I've already started planning next years reading list...
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Top 20 Things That Make a Woman Beautiful

So I'm back - far sooner than I'd like - from my holiday and, as is often the case on holiday, I've had lots of time to ponder and have come up with some interesting thoughts (well I think so anyway!) that I'll be writing about soon in relation to body image.  However, whilst I was away I received a press release regarding a survey that was conducted by Arbonne with 1000 women and what they think makes a woman beautiful.  Here are the top 20:


  1. Kindness
  2. Great smile
  3. Sense of humour
  4. Nice manners
  5. Compassion
  6. Confidence
  7. Intelligence
  8. Bright eyes
  9. Unselfish
  10. Flawless skin
  11. Smiles a lot
  12. Good with children
  13. Nice hairstyle
  14. Smells good
  15. Charitable
  16. Soft skin
  17. Long eyelashes
  18. Manicured nails
  19. Funny laugh
  20. Pedicured feet
In my opinion, a lot of women pay far more attention of what other women think of them rather than men - especially with regards to how we dress - so I think it's quite charming to see these results that aren't fully focused on aesthetics and a looks-based mention doesn't come in until number eight!

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Holiday Post: Countdown Timeline

I will FINALLY be going away for a holiday next Tuesday after months (literally months!) of trying to find the right time to go, so I'll be doing a few holiday themed posts over the next couple of weeks to share with you how I go about preparing for my getaway.

In the meantime, here's how my next few days are planned out:

Day Five - Body Prep and Luggage 

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Hair removal! I'm booked in for a leg and bikini wax and a gel pedicure.  I've never had a gel pedicure before, but as my feet get a bit of a battering when I'm away due to chlorine and sand, I thought it'd be a good idea to go for something a bit long-lasting.

I also need to buy some suitable luggage as I want to invest in a hard case rather than my usual soft one, especially as I want to take my jammy camera away with me which is a bit bulky and I'm terrified of it getting battered in a soft case.  I'm thinking TK Maxx will be my best bet.

Day Four - Shopping

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Tomorrow I'll be mainly stocking up on bits and bobs that I'll need when I go away such as a new bikini (which I buy every year without fail, yet only ever wear my tatty old lilac suede one for some inexplicable reason) and some comfy linen trousers to lounge about in.

I'll also be putting together a list of books to take away with me and updating my Kindle accordingly as well as filling my iPhone with summery songs.

Day Three - Getting Organised 

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This will be the day when I start thinking about what I'll need to take with me.  I didn't do this last year and instead panic-packed so I ended up taking seven pairs of jeans with me and no underwear at all...

I'll also spend this day putting together a rough idea of what blogs to schedule for publishing whilst I'm away.

Day Two - Panic and Freak Out

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My dad will be moving in to my home whilst I'm away (as it made more sense since I have six pets - so rather than put them all into pet care, he's going to look after them for me instead) so I'll be putting together a strict list of instructions for him, as well as stocking up on plenty of food for the fur babies so I don't come home to find Dad and Dog sharing steak and chips.

This will also be the day when the paranoia creeps in and I start convincing myself that I've forgotten something really important.  Maybe like underwear...

Day One - Pack and Blog Like Nobody's Watching

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Usually by this point I've taken on a 'who gives an eff' approach and even started resenting the whole holiday thing a little bit.  So I just chuck everything into the (hopefully hard top) suitcase and hope for the best.  I think as long as I have a bikini, skincare, make-up and books then everything else is flexible....right??

Now I'll get my blog on and start writing up everything for the next week whilst I'm away.  I'll aim to do seven posts but I won't just blog for the sake of blogging, so we shall see.

Day Zero - Leavin' On a Budget Airline Jet Plane

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The Devil May Care attitude will kick-in and I'll start doing silly things like buying croissant at the airport even though I'm not hungry and weighing myself down with magazines from the painfully priced WH Smith.  I'll be flying from Gatwick this year - somewhere I've never flown from - so really that's a holiday in itself...

Any helpful suggestions on how to approach the nightmare before holiday?  Please share!
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The "Titbit" Page

I've been a terrible blogger for the last few days as I've had so little free time available to write, yet annoyingly, there's a lot I want to write about! Therefore expect an influx of news and reviews this coming week when I FINALLY get some time to take pictures and put my writing cap on.

In the meantime, I've added a new permanent page to my blog which I've called "Titbits", something I'll no doubt regret when I start getting search traffic for porn.

However, the reason I've called it Titbits is because I wanted to set up a permanent page that can contain tips and bits and bobs about beauty that I think are useful, yet not deserving of a full post. I'll be updating it regularly and would appreciate any input; if you have any beauty nuggets of wisdom then please comment on the page and I'll add them to the main page (with credit given to the sharer) as and when.

The page is along the top with the disclosure policy, contact info etc and can be found here: Titbits.  As you can see, it's a little on the bare side at the moment, but I just wanted to get it started as I've been meaning to do it for a while.  Hopefully it'll prove a useful list of beauty ideas, but at the very least it'll work as a good spot for me to add little things that I think are worth mentioning without having to create a whole new post around them,
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Disqus Comments

I've added Disqus to my blog to (hopefully!) make commenting easier to keep track of.  This means that it'll take 24 hours for the changes to take effect and in the meantime all the comments that I previously received (almost 2000 - amazing!!) won't be visible until the updates occur so if you've entered the giveaway or commented recently, don't worry as the comments will return soon! Just thought I'd update :)
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A Couple of Updates

I just wanted to post a couple of updates that I think are relevant to BGUK readers.  I promise not to ramble on!

Firstly, I'm going to start writing a disclosure at the bottom of every post (I'll do my best to remember!) regardless of whether I paid for the product/treatment or not.  I'm really keen to make the full disclosure aspect as clear as possible, so hopefully this will help and I'd really appreciate feedback as to whether the current system of using a key (e.g. (S) means sample, (T) means treatment, etc) is good enough or not.  In the meantime, I'll disclose at the end of every post to be on the safe side.

Speaking of disclosing, Handpicked Media e-mailed me last week to let me know that there needs to be clarification about Cookies on my blog somewhere.  I've posted it at the end of the Disclosure page, so hopefully it all makes sense.  I really don't know enough about Cookies to explain what it all means, but it reads pretty simply so hopefully it'll prove of use!

Lastly, I've decided to start getting involved with Wordless Wednesday, but I wanted to keep it beauty related.  Therefore, I've decided to try my best to have a Wordless Wednesday post every week and it will involve a picture of my Pug (it has to be done) posing with a product I'm currently loving.

Update over, it looks like the sun is out so hopefully I can finally wear sandals today!
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Where do I get some sleep? Help Please!

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I'm a firm believer in the huge benefits of a good night's sleep.  I don't think there is any point in spending silly money on lotions and potions to keep you looking pretty if you're going to neglect the basics, and in my mind the most essential basic is sleep.

I've been running around like a maniac lately, working all sorts of crazy hours, so my sleep has suffered and boy can you tell! My skin just doesn't know what to do with itself when it's sleep deprived and I've now got lovely, dry, tight-feeling skin with some very painful cysts on my chin and cheeks.  Not fun.  I'll definitely need to make some time soon to pamper it back to normality, but in the meantime I have no idea what's going on with my sleeping habits.

I used to be the kind of girl who sleep came easily to.  Not necessarily one of those people who's head hits the pillow and they're out - most of the time my head indulges in the quiet time before sleep to work through everything - but once I'm out, I'm out.  I'm rubbish at getting up before my body has decided it's ready to awaken and there is no maximum time I can sleep for; if I decide I'm going to stay asleep for 14 or even 15 hours then it will happen.....until recently.

Now I go to bed, fall asleep in minutes and two hours later I'm wide awake again.  I then have to get up for at least an hour, usually two, before I can head back to bed and get some more kip.  This is a horrendous pattern that's formed and I'm now feeling knackered constantly, so I thought I'd put it out to you, my lovely readers and request any suggestions you may have for better sleep.  How do you get to sleep/stay asleep?  What works for you?  Is there anything you think I could do to improve my sleeping?  I'd very much appreciate any suggestions, I don't mind if they're a bit out there as I'm happy to try anything at this point!

Get Some Sleep - Bic Runga.
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The Joys of Beauty Blogging

In some of my recent posts I've banged on about my love for beauty blogging and the various ways it's enhanced my life, so I thought I'd put together a post detailing the things I love most about being a beauty blogger. I'll warn you that this has turned into a bit of an essay, so apologies for the long read!

We Are The People

To be fair, I wouldn't go as far as to say that I'm so close to people I've met through my blog that I'd call them family, but in a funny little way, they're kind of my favourite people as they're the people who share my passion and are happy to not only listen to me wax lyrical about my latest skincare love, but they're eager to join in and share their latest make-up find.  The people I'm talking about are the fellow beauty bloggers, the PRs and the readers.  There's at least one person in each of these categories who I can count as a genuine friend who I see regularly and look forward to catching up with.  On top of that, you have the support system of the Twitter beauty bloggers who are always around to share their wisdom and advice, send you sad face tweets when you're having a rubbish day and congratulate you when things are going well.  On Twitter there is a phenomenal network of beauty bloggers from all over the place who come together daily to chat.  Twitter is an invaluable resource for any beauty blogger.

It Must Be Love

Non-bloggers will think me a little odd and possibly even other bloggers too, but there's no escaping the fact that I LOVE my blog.  I don't mean I love it in the way I love Mexican food, I mean that I'm in love with my blog.  I am constantly proud, bewildered and ecstatic by the results it produces.  For example, when a gigantic blog posts a link to something I've written or someone e-mails me to say that a recommendation I've made has changed their life, or even when someone gets in touch with the sole intention of thanking me for writing the blog (OK that's only happened twice, but it made me feel like a rock star!) it leaves me with the overwhelming buzz of pride that lasts for days.  My blog is my baby that I created from nothing other than a few ideas and turned it into something that makes a positive - albeit very occasional - difference to the life of a complete stranger.  Isn't that astonishing?

Magic's in the Make-Up

Every single day (apart from the occasional missed day, but oh the guilt! THE GUILT!) I write about something to do with beauty.  Regardless of whether people read it or not (but they do, which in itself is more excitement than I can usually handle) I get to sit down for an hour and absorb myself in a good ol' ramble about my favourite lipstick, or what skincare I'm loving.  It takes me completely out of the rest of my day and allows me to focus on something I truly love talking about.  It strikes a perfect balance as it's a challenge because I like to try and write well so that people know the point I'm trying to make (I'm not always successful but the intention is definitely there...) but because it's about beauty, it very rarely feels like hard work.  I say 'very rarely' as opposed to 'never' because there are the odd occasions when I'm shattered and cannot face the idea of doing anything that involves positioning myself upright at a computer, but I do generally try and push through.  I'm definitely more relaxed about it than I used to be, as I don't think anyone wants to read a heavily forced post that I have no interest in writing and is only there to provide basic content, but I think the longest I've gone without posting so far is 3 days and I don't believe I've done that more than twice.  They say that happiness is small, achievable goals, and if you're writing about something you love then you're achieving exactly that.

Missed Opportunity

Jane at BBB wrote a great post recently on becoming a professional blogger.  The general consensus through the comments was that the way it's achieved is through the opportunities that arise as a consequence of your blog, rather than making money directly through your blog itself.  I couldn't agree more as the work I now do would not have been possible if it wasn't for my blog.  Considering how easy it is to start a blog and how many of us beauty bloggers there are in the UK alone, it's very difficult to offer something on a blog that someone else hasn't already managed previously.  There will always be exceptions who prove the rule by appearing out of nowhere and achieving obscenely high stats and successful ad revenue within months, but for the majority of us that just isn't going to happen any time soon.  However, that doesn't mean you can't make money from blogging, you just have to be creative.  There are examples of bloggers who have gone on to become professional writers or work in PR as a direct result of their blog, as their blog fuelled their passion for the subject of beauty and this resulted in the realisation that they wanted it to become their career.  A blog also works as a portfolio of work too.  The money I make as a direct result of my blog is by writing things for other beauty companies; things like press releases and blogs for their company website.  I have a degree in writing which possibly helped, but I don't think it in any way sealed the deal.  I believe that if you're a good writer, this will be clear in the posts you make on your blog.

Free

Now for the controversial part which I have to mention as it is part of the joy of blogging and whilst I realise some people may think I should apologise for feeling this way, I would definitely struggle to apologise convincingly.  The more successful your blog gets, the more free stuff is on offer to you.  Receiving samples to write about is exciting, as is being invited to an event to find out about a new launch.  However, for me, the excitement comes from the idea that my opinion is credible enough for a company to want to hear my thoughts.  I'm not naive and I know that as my blog has grown, so has my Google rank (albeit marginally) and at the very least, a company who receives a review from me will receive a small boost to their SEO, but my experience so far has been that companies genuinely want to know what I think of a product and the same applies to events I've attended.  This alone is so incredibly flattering to both me and my blog and I really enjoy this side of it.  It isn't just the freebies but the scoops I love too; when we're sent a press release about a well known brand's newest launch, the knowledge that we're ahead of everyone else in knowing about this launch is incredibly exciting, but then again it would only be exciting to someone who loves beauty.

On another note, when I receive a press release or an invitation from a brand who I've never heard of to sample one of their products and then find an absolute gem in the sample is yet another thing to love about beauty blogging.  As I mentioned in another post, there are so many products that I've come across as a beauty blogger that I just don't think I would have had I not been blogging.  A good example of this is Etat Pur (who I obsess about regularly on here for delivering such fantastic results) and Ginvera Green Tea BB Cream which is my go-to BB Cream as it suits me perfectly.

It is a bit of a minefield as I've definitely been guilty of being a bit trigger happy when being offered samples, but it's a tricky one as when someone offers you the chance to try things that really excite you, it's difficult to say no.  However, the whole thing is a big learning curve and as I've developed my understanding of blogging, I have learned to research a product before agreeing to try it.  Firstly, there is absolutely no point in me trying something that isn't suitable for me and my skin and secondly, there's only so much skincare I can try within a particular time frame.  If I take on too much, I'll end up feeling pressured by the PR (who, quite rightly, expects a timely review) and guilty for not being able to deliver on my promises.  As I said, it was a learning curve for me but as I've honed my ability to select products to review, I've found that the things I do review are things that both myself and my readers are genuinely interested in.

The End

So there we have it; my thoughts on the joys of being a beauty blogger.  If you're considering starting a beauty blog as an outlet for your passion for beauty, I say do it (yes that means you Haidee!!).  However, if you're thinking of doing it because you like the idea of writing about freebies, attending glamorous events and sending companies your shopping lists, definitely don't do it as chances are you'll run out of stamina way before you reach a point of success needed to be in the position where companies and PRs perceive you as reputable.  There is no easy way to develop a blog, it's very time-consuming hard work and I'm sure most bloggers will agree that the first few weeks/months/years/delete as appropriate were spent writing away for the benefit of the token gesture views from your mum and your mates.  There were at least 5 occasions when I wondered why I was bothering as absolutely nobody was reading what I had to say, but I kept on regardless because I loved putting together little posts about my opinion on the perfect summer pink lip and the best moisturisers for spot-prone skins.  Then suddenly I was receiving a hit every few days from Google searches (GOOGLE I tells ya!) and after a few more weeks I made 100 views (so I went out for dinner to celebrate. Seriously.) and eventually the views, followers and comments started growing.  But all of that isn't too important (I realise it's easy for me to say that now) as what is important is staying true to the reason why I first started blogging; purely and simply because I love all things beauty related.

P.S.  Yes I did spend a stupidly long time finding song titles that were suitable for this post.  I have absolutely no idea why.
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Cosmopolitan Blog Awards 2012


It's blogger awards time again! I know you all have far more important things to do than read my begging posts requesting a nomination, but I'd be so incredibly grateful if you'd take two minutes of your time to nominate me for this as it would AMAZING to win! Not that I will as there are many incredible blogs in the running for it, but you can't blame me for trying, right?

If you go to this link here and put my blog address - www.beautygeekuk.com - and your e-mail address and that's really all you need to do! I'd so appreciate it if you could and I promise to keep my begging posts to a minimum :)

Thanks everyone xx
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Skin Purging: Necessary Adjustment?

I've been meaning to write about this for a while as it's something I often consider.  Skin purging is when your skin needs time to adjust to a product and therefore, allegedly, forces all the underlying issues (spots under the skin) to the surface within the first couple of weeks of using said product.  I often read blogs that say that after the initial purge, the product turned out to be great, but my belief is that a product should be great from day one.  If I use a product and it breaks me out, as far as I'm concerned, it isn't worth pursuing.  Why would I want to put something on my face that my skin obviously doesn't like, that could risk more post-acne scars and that has some sort of ingredient that is forcing my pores to become infected?

Yet lots of people think that purging is something that is an acceptable part of trying new skincare.  I try a lot of skincare and mix it up a lot of the time.  Sometimes my skin will just freak out in protest and I know that this is the time when I need to cut it all out and give it a break.  However, my skin freakouts are when my skin decides to work it's way through all the various skin types (dry, combi, oily, dehydrated etc) in a very short space of time due to me confusing it with all sorts of different products and treatments.  This is not the same as purging.  If I'm using a product that is specifically aimed at treating spots, then I will not give it the benefit of the doubt if one of the first things it does is give me spots!

Within 24 hours of using a product I can tell whether I'll continue to do so.  A good product will show some signs of immediate impact, albeit often very small.  So if a product appears to have given me under the skin spots that are apparently a sign it's working as it's purging my skin, I will quickly move on to something that bypasses this apparent essential phase.

I realise that people may disagree with me on this point, so I'll just ask this: if I were to give you a hand cream with the instructions that it will make your skin much more dry for a couple of weeks before you start seeing any real difference, would you use it? I definitely wouldn't, so I approach my skincare with the same logic.
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A Little Post About Comments

Just a quickie, to all those who take the time to comment on any post I write, I'd like to say a massive thank-you as I get so excited to see the notification that tells me someone has commented!

I do my absolute best to reply to comments once a week, but I'm going through a furiously busy period at the moment so it's taken a bit longer.

I have some time over the weekend when I plan to catch-up, but I wanted to mention this as if you ever leave a comment that includes a question, please always check back as I do reply eventually!

I reply to every single comment left on any post on here that isn't related to a competition entry, so it's worth checking back....even if it's a week later :)

Thanks again everyone, I hugely appreciate your support and please keep commenting! xx
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A "Great Natural Face" is Easy to Achieve...

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I read a blog post today discussing the fact that all we need to do to achieve a natural face that can comfortably go make-up free is to develop some good cleansing, toning and moisturising habits.  Considering that 50% of women and 25% of men will experience acne or breakout-prone skin at some point in their adult lives, is this not a little misleading?  Certainly, if I wasn't so beauty obsessed and unaware of the fact that problem skin is rarely due to poor skincare and usually more to do with hormones, genes, stress etc then reading this article would make me wonder why it is that everyone is capable of achieving great, natural skin by washing their face properly, but not me.

The lucky 62.5% who manage to spend their adult lives breakout free can't really understand how hard it is to be, for all intents and purposes, an adult fighting a skin problem that is usually associated with being an adolescent.  Well before I became 'skin savvy' I genuinely believed that there was something wrong with me, as whilst my fellow teenage friends outgrew their acne, mine just seemed to gain strength and become resistant to everything I tried.  In the past ten years I've spent thousands of pounds trying to get my skin under control which may sound dramatic, but if you consider how many lasers, peels, private dermatologist appointments, creams, lotions and treatments I've tried, it's easy to see how that would add up.

What grates me about the general view that isn't helped by articles such as the one above, is the assumption that people who suffer breakouts are somehow lazy in their approach to skincare.  I remember being on Facebook during a series of The Apprentice where one of the contestants had obviously broken out skin and people were bitching about the fact that she clearly didn't wash properly or wasn't aware that Clearasil exists.  Firstly, I can pretty much guarantee that if I were on The Apprentice (never going to happen, but stay with me...) the stress of it would absolutely break me out, as all I need is a bit of adrenaline to get my skin reacting, but secondly, the insinuation that she was suffering a breakout due to poor hygiene drove me mad, and the irony is that most spot sufferers will have the most carefully put together skincare routine you'll ever witness!

The only way anyone ever manages to treat long-term acne is through trial and error, plus maybe a bit of medical help to establish it's cause.  Articles that suggest that a good cleanser, toner (don't forget the toner!  You'll need that to completely remove your pores apparently) and moisturiser are all you need to go make-up free, I fear, ostracise the considerably large population of women and men who cleanse, tone and moisturise religiously, yet still get spots and don't know why.

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Philips ReAura: Yet Another Update....


After battling my skin for what seemed like an eternity, I am now at a point where I can comfortably ReAura around the couple of spots I have left, so I did!  The next post will be up in a couple of days.  I'm so sorry I took absolutely ages to start treating again, but it was literally a case of waiting for my skin to stop doing what it wanted to do and to just blimin' well calm down, which it finally has.  On the plus side, I have a whole host of new pigmentation so hopefully the ReAura will help with that.  Yay!
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